Don’t be Complicit

Today’s tweet, July 15, 2019, by Trump had the desired effect. He threw enough garbage out there to derail the energy from situation of the dehumanizing of a group of people, especially children. I believe it is not Trump (he is the instigator) but ourselves that is keeping us in this dehumanize state. As long as our feeble protests remain ineffectual, we follow the path of those citizens in Germany during the time of Hitler. Citizens who had allowed Hitler and other murders to sway the very soul of a country to allow evil to exist are the true causers. We must stop being collusion in the non-action of the Senate and Congress and not allow ourselves to be diverted by Trump.

As long as our voices remain in sotto (hushed) our soul will continue to be destroyed as a nation and individuals. There may be forgiveness by a powerful energy some call God or even a personal forgiveness, but it is impossible to atone for the inhumane treatment of children, or the death of a child via neglect or greed.

Do not allow a sick individual divert us from the path of humanitarian consciousness. Do not allow your soul to be damaged because you are afraid to shout, or give up you sotto voice.

From the very beginning our country (USA) has been complicit in acts of cruelty toward others we felt were different. You have only to look back at the treatment of Native Americans, African Americans, and the Japanese. This current situation is no different. Now is the time to stop the pattern of inhuman treatment of others because of differences. Stand up shout from the roof top embrace the differences of neighbors, embrace those who are in need, and most of all take you soul out of mothballs and set it free.

Put pressure on your representatives whatever you feel will help. Tell them to stop agreeing to the destruction of the American Soul.

Languages Of The Gender Revolution

 Language is magical. Out of our words we create a reality. As we name life so are we. Trying to define the indefinable creates binary definitions. For instance trying to describe hot. There is nothing that is 100% hot. How do you describe the degree of hot that is the ultimate hot to you? Nothing is 100 %, hot, cold, light, or, or, or. This same idea is present when we label someone with an adjective or try to designate gender. In no way is a femme 100% femme in bed or in life. There is still a piece of butch residing in her. Pronouns are another way we limit our thinking and world about each other. It is within the grey areas of life that we find the truth. The extremes of binary thinking, either or thought, black and white leave us without depth and color. The stale and flat appearance of binary thinking is like believing the world is flat and it has an edge of no return.

When in a meeting comprised of GLBTQIS members’ pronouns are always introduced when giving our names. To me this is confusing, mainly because I can’t imagine how our gender plays any part in a business meeting. I personally find it hard to say I am her, or CIS, or, or, or. I don’t feel like I am one idea. I am an infinite number of genders depending on the situation at hand and what is needed. I am androgynous, all genders and all degrees of gender at the same time. Because I am consciousness I can call on all or none of what is available to be used. As consciousness my gender is being produced by my actions, thoughts, and beliefs. I have come to see that each of us is a gender unique to our consciousness.

Comprehension of nouns, pronouns, and adjectives usually starts with a mental picture in the mind. Early in life our brain translates these pictures into words we understand. The greater our experience the more pictures we have and thus more language/words to communicate our thoughts and ideas. The greater the grasp of language the more intelligent a person is appears. This is not a real measure of intelligence, as ability comes in an infinite array of concepts. All of this plays into the need for us to come to a new understanding of the organic nature of language and the part it plays in our humanity and freeing us from a binary system.

Reaching out connecting with another is one of the most important behaviors of humanity. It appears that we don’t feel alive without this language connection. And as with any organic matter it is diverse in its meanings and use among similar societies. English and High German are the only two languages that have the ability to create new words and easily change meaning and the context use of words. This ability is so important to the survival of the species (again a kind of diversity evolving) that we have created memes that are invading almost all cultures on our planet. Unless a language diversifies it cannot embrace the changing consciousness of humanity. A good example of this is the Chinese; in order to move into our current age of technology their scientist must learn either German or English as Mandarin has no way of making new words or language to describe the diversity of engineering. In Mandarin they must say, “man who walks among the stars” instead of astronauts. They are left with needing to use English because the form of the language will not diversify enough to accommodate.

The mandate of all life is survival, to communicate, and connect to the changing consciousness. This survival and communication push is forceful enough to go beyond any boundaries that humanity might find important. It transcends culture, family, and religion. The 21st Century phenomenon of memes is a good example of the push of consciousness ideas into every technical culture on earth.

The world of memes is noteworthy for two reasons: it is a worldwide social phenomenon, and memes behave like a mass of infectious flu and cold viruses, traveling from person to person quickly through social media. The memes of English are changing the very structure of culture and consciousness. They are transmitting the new meanings and diversity of the organic changes happening in language of the emerging gender revolution. The changes and revolution that is being created it is no wonder so many sovereignties try to block USA social media. Our memes are changing not only our language and culture, but also those of the technical countries.

Memes are able to transmit meanings that the words have not been able to do so far. A picture crosses language barriers, creates a reality, and allows the person seeing it to create a concept and language meaning within their thinking. I believe that PRIDE parades create a kind of meme for the world. Saying “this is us, all the variety and infinite existence. Even if you kill out one variety of us there are too many now.” Like seeds bursting forth from a pod the growth and revolutions happening around gender can’t be taken back. Without lifting a stick or a gun the revolution began with words, with names the world has yet to fully understand.

Even Capitalism has not been able to swallow up this gender revolution and make money off of it. The diversity of gender has outsmarted the capitalist. There is too much gender diversity to put into a box and label it as a product for sale. Diversity has always been a key to survival. Seeing that language is organic and grows and changes, understanding  all organic life is complicated but in the end  the simplicity and harmony of life prevails. The capitalistic way of annihilating creative life by labeling and wrapping it in a box to be sold is gone. The recent laws enacted against transgender beings and bathrooms, abortion, and immigration are simply the screams of a dying beast whose life of destruction is about to end.

© 2019 Suzanne Deakins from                                                                                             Sexual Fluidity The Gender Revolution

 

 

 

 

Multidimensional Gender

I learn by writing and painting. This book came to life because I wanted to better understand my androgynous children and my two daughters who are transgender. The more I write the more I have begun to realize how many dimensions are involved in our human experience. Each dimension a reality that blends and merges into the other creating new fractals of being and consciousness.

In a GLPTIQ person masculine and feminine don’t have the same counter parts in the hetro world. The dimensionality moves these in a different direction. This is what I know to be so from my own experiences. Transgender is more than just feeling like the opposite sex internally from the external manifestation of gender. For a transgender there is a feeling of something desperately wrong, perhaps emotionally like being in a dream state and not being able to wake up to their true self. I have had one transgender person describe it as being angry trying to fight your way out of a cobweb covering.

In an androgynous state that is not being expressed it is more like having a box of chocolate and not allowing your self to taste it. A pressure to use, taste, smell, and experience a hidden desire, almost erotic and definitely exotic hidden within the consciousness. Not until this state is experience does the individual feel whole. It is similar to a moment of orgasm, for that second of indescribable pleasure that brings about completeness. In the end the infinite genders are all androgynous, but how they express this and use it has no singular or binary description.

The individual life experiences create a uniqueness, a gender and consciousness thumbprint unlike any other in a person. The consequences of this are a universe of conscious reality like no one else posse. It is the differences, the uniqueness of our consciousness that makes us a singular body as humanity. For too long we have looked to the sameness to connect us. Life survives not because of sameness but because of the diversity that allows us to adapt to changing environments and conscious realities. Through our diversity we become strong and fit able to face the changing realities of life. Those who cannot move from a binary existence to one of multiplicity in gender and expression of love will not survive.

When two of these conscious realities meet and find themselves attracted their blending creates further realities unlike any other thus producing queer love. The pairing they form cannot be labeled as binary, nor can the family unit that might emerge. As we start to recognize the infinite manifestation of gender and queer love we must also salute the infinite pairing and coupling that produces family structure unlike any that have been experienced before. While gender and families are unique they also carry similarity to life as we have known it until now.

It is my experiences that until we are free from all of the binary boxes can we be truly creative and alive.

(c) 2019 Suzanne Deakins                                                                                                              from Sexual Fluidity the Gender Revolution. 

 The Biology of the Transgender Self

I do not study Epigenetics nor am I scientist. I am an author, Ontologist, and teacher. What I have written is based on what I understand from my research and might have a few flaws, but on the whole I believe it is true to fact. The lesson below is a part of my new book in progress called Sexual Fluidity and Gender Revolution.

 The Biology of the Transgender Self

Knowledge of self, awareness of self and the ability to communicate in some manner the awareness of self are all a loose definition of consciousness. In the study of beingness we often use the phrase I am I, I am the self, the awareness indicating our consciousness. I do not believe our brain and body rule our consciousness singularly, but understanding that brain is directing actions and that mind or consciousness is both and yet not of both is important to unravel the mystery of self.

In the case of a transgender individual (and there are more than binary transgender{s})self is the same, perhaps a bit confusing being caused by the mix signals emitted by a binary society that has labeled all bodies as male or female. Gender identification and self are as individual as our fingerprints. Gender begins in utero during the first trimester. But before we get to the birthing of a transgender person we must understand how the basis of all life determines how our brain will come to work and perhaps perceive.

It all starts with DNA. DNA is the chain of links in our body that tell cells how they are to behave. It tells cells if they will be eyeballs, skin, noses and more. The DNA sequence never changes, but the activity of DNA can radically and perpetually change. The genes tell the cells we grow to behave like our parents, they are our inheritance.

Life in our cells is biodegradable and breaks down and must be rebuilt. The NA does not breakdown or change. There is so much DNA in the cells that it becomes entangled in knots. External factors can change how these DNA knots are formed. These knots are like small machines making many things happen within a cell, connecting paths, constructing things all making life occur.

If everything breaks down daily in our cells how do we remember past one day? The DNA must remember some how. We know the DNA sequence does not change if it did our body would be growing new extra parts like a new ear or lips. Think of the knots a DNA memory. The knots change shapes. And event in life can change how these DNA knots perform.

An event in life can change how the DNA knots act. In an intense childhood event, stress hormones flood our brain. These hormones don’t change the DNA sequence but they do change the part of DNA with the guidelines on how to reduce stress. This piece of DNA gets tied up in a knot and the dumb builder machines can’t read the instructions for building stress control and reduction devices. This is happening on a, minuscule level while on the larger scale you are loosing the ability to reduce stress. This is how the DNA is able to remember the past and affect our actions and emotions.

To The Birthing

An inseminated egg grows into a baby. The DNA process requires thousands of decisions to be made. Different decisions come at different time during a pregnancy, should a cell become a heart cell, brain cell, or a blood cell?

These same DNA workings happen in other parts of the body. The forerunner to the genitals transforms into either male or female. This happens in the first trimester of pregnancy. The precursor brains transform into male or female in the second trimester of pregnancy.

The scientific working model that in the womb is that the area of the genitals transformed one way while the brain transformed another way. The brain is giving the transgender person an innate sense of who they are. We know that the male and female brains are different, think, and relate differently.

The sense of self is not seated in the genitals but rather in the mind in the consciousness. If the brain is saying I am female then the person is female, the same for male. The genitals do not determine gender.

Science is beginning to understand how the hormones trigger the formation of these DNA knots. For instance the hormones connected with the thyroid transcribe and tell the DNA how to use the codes (tell the knot machines how to rebuild cells each day). HRT gives the DNA instructions to cells to reduce hair growth or start growth etc. Neither hormones nor body changes create the transgender self.

The self is seen and develops out of our emotional reactions to relationships with our environment, parents, and growing sense of reflection of life. The growth of a transgender consciousness must wade through dual response. The conflict between and inner knowing and what they were told to believe about their body and gender. In a world that has been steeped in binary ideals and labeling since Adam there is a long phylogenetic history to over come.

© Suzanne Deakins                                                                                                                         from Sexual Fluidity and Gender Revolution

 

Sexual Fluidity and Gender Revolution

Is Our Anatomy Destiny?

We are layers of identity, anatomy, and consciousness. In our bodies and consciousness there are no straight lines if existence. We are complicated non-binary beings existing in a universe that is in constant flux, change, and growth. Perhaps change in many cases is the wrong word, things have always been as they are and we were simply not aware or awake enough to recognize them.

What I awoke to was that all love is queer love. That is, love is different in every relationship and that there is no one definition of love that neither fits any relationship. Nor can love be defined by what we think we know. Queer love then is defined as non-binary and outside traditional definitions. It is love of the 5% differences we all carry as well as the 95% sameness.

Because we, each persona, is manifesting in infinite existence, we find we are different and yet alike. It is the differences that help us establish our authentic self. It is the differences, and the fractal edges that take us to queer love, wanting to be with another, with a group that allows us to experience the valid self. Loving each other as we are rather than as a binary society has told us is how queer love happens.

Without becoming too scientific it is important to know that your body does not define your gender. It is hormones and consciousness that defines the gender no matter how it manifests. In a later chapter we will discuss the importance of understanding this principle. So for now know your body is not wrong nor were you born into the wrong body, your body never betrayed you.

It was the restrictive binary gender thinking that makes you feel your body is wrong. (I am not speaking against gender reassignment, I am explaining what happens with consciousness and our thinking.) For you to be authentic and capable of queer love you must start by accepting the idea most of your pain and even self-loathing is based on binary definitions of gender and what you have been told. To be authentic means to understand the uniqueness of your gender. Your gender is uniquely only yours.

Queer love then is the ability to be fearless in your pursuit of authentic self and love. To comprehend queer love is to imagine love in a whole different way. Queer love demands you be fluid and limitless in your embrace of love and inclusive of accepting all genders.

A gender spectrum that is limitless.

This movement in consciousness of the fluidity of sexuality, gender is more than about resistance and freedom, it is about expanding the complexity of humanity to the outer margins of our thinking. This expansion is creating new freedoms for all of humanity. This revolution/evolution of gender is creating the freedom to unlock the individuality, infinite likeness, and diversity of our thinking and our corporal existence. There are no blueprints for this new world that is being created, no documents, bibles, and binary rules to guide us. We must form our own rules from what we know to be so about the nature of reality, compassion, and love.

We must be guided by understanding that our anatomy, blood, and DNA can no longer guide us in forming loving and caring families, but by the very depths of the compassion that so many of us failed to receive from our families and communities new families are being formed.

Many of us have been betrayed by the people we trusted most. To move past this we must create a whole language of love that allows us to have a space where we live our authentic self without fear, hate, and self disgust. A space where we no longer impose the binary standards for what masculinity and femininity is supposed to be.

This new love this queer love not limited to those in the LGBTQ2IS community but for all humanity. It is inclusive and love is a tool for revolutionary/evolutionary change. History has taught us that if we do not recognize the time in consciousness evolution we are at the revolution will cause us to be decapitated and destroyed.

If we take the time to unlearn our biases of binary standards, and thinking we will be able to allow a new world to be created where everyone is self-determined, free to be their authentic self without fear, hate, and self loathing, a society that is indeed of compassion.

Each of us must explore our own deep-seeded concepts of masculine and feminine we carry within. Know how it plays out into our relationships personally, in community, socially, and globally. As we discover our authentic selves we must reimagine our anatomy and relationships. We cannot live with the definitions we have been taught and carry within our unconscious mind.

Our gender (authentic self) must be able to work in tandem with all other genders to have healthy relationships that are loving, compassionate, and safe. We must be guided by spirit, truth, and infinite compassion as we form new definitions of existence. When we become authentic we are able to celebrate each other’s genders and fluidity of sexual creation. Our celebration does not diminish the gender of another but enhances all the queerness around us. We must imagine ourselves into existence, creating new institutions, new kinds of life, families, and relationships. Gender is not static and our relationship to our gender is not definable into characteristic of binary male and female. This new queer world is one of self-determination and not one of imposed definition of gender, love, and relationships.

 

 

 

Are You Relevant? Part One

 

Are you closely connected to what is germane, pertinent? To answer this you, of course, must define in what situation and under what circumstances you are referring to. To become relevant, you must embrace your consciousness and the perception you have of life. Within this consciousness resides the mot fundamental relevance of all humanity. Relationships. For a relationship to be true, it must be intimate. This intimacy in relationships relates to more than person-to-person, all of life is a relationship. In writing this I must acknowledge to the words and ideas I am expressing and their relationship to my consciousness. To give the concept importance and relevance I must be intimate or familiar in my thinking.

Everything we do is a relationship. We view life and its movement as being something in which we participate. This looks like we are separate outside of life. In reality, our consciousness is creating the life we see reflecting back to us. We are seeing a reflection of our attitudes and experiences. When we look out there, we are also seeing the universal collective unconsciousness that resides within us.

The idea that all life is a reflection of consciousness means that everything that appears in our consciousness is in a connection to our thinking. This is a sacred relationship. To know purpose and meaning you must reveal the relationship between your consciousness and cosmic intent. This too is a sacred relationship. Marriage between two adults is a sacred relationship, becoming a parent is a sacred relationship. Any relationship with another is sacred and in that sense God/Truth sanctifies it. Even the most mundane of tasks reveals a sacred relationship. As it all resonates and comes from the creator source. To be truly intimate in our life we must see all of our relationships as sacred and worthy of knowing absolute love.

Healing and bliss don’t come from hate, hiding, revenge they come from absolute love, from the revelation of the authentic being, we are. To be healed of error of perception we must surrender to the sacredness, wholeness, and completeness of the creator source. This is an irrefutable spiritual law. That which is spiritual law has no end just as 2+2=4 has no beginning or end so is the existence of all spiritual law. Your covenant your contract with reality is this spiritual law, this relationship with the eternal now of all being.

Sacred relationships start by recognizing all existence is sacred and blessed as deriving from the divine core of all life. Life takes on a different meaning and is no longer disposable, no longer separate or without meaning. To explore our true self we must see that all life is sacred and worthy of our embrace. To embrace life knowing it is of the creator source and its appearance is simply life manifesting in infinite variety sets us free of the loneliness that haunts our ego mind.

The sacredness of a relationship is never diminished by separation or the immediate cessation. Love is never ended. We shift and change in our view in consciousness but love remains as does the sacredness of a relationship. The ego may scream, fight, and say it is ended but it never ends. We may grow to dislike the actions of another but the very essence of their being remains in tact.

It is with the essence of being that we love and form sacred relationships. The physical being and actions are a reflection of consciousness of individuals but it is not the core of our being. The essence of us is divine and spirit. We are whole and complete in our essence. Our essence is beautiful and loving. The rest is simply window dressing we have come to believe constitutes the whole of individual. But it is simply a series of roles playing out in consciousness.

What is real is invisible to the eye, but seen by the heart.

(c) copyright 2010-2019 by Suzanne Deakins,                                                                     Sacred Intimacy available on amazon.com as kindle and paperback

Sexual Fluidity Part 2

Gender is not binary. It has nothing to do with what we call sexual organs; it is a state of relating to our identity as consciousness. When someone asks me to say what pronouns I wish to be called, I find myself confused. For, to me I am infinite genders capable of expressing in unknown ways and feelings yet to be defined.

Sexuality is like having a taste for certain foods. Our tastes for sexual encounters and acts have nothing to do with gender identification, genital, or any other physical identification we may have. Our tastes are formed out of our evolving fractal patterns of existence.

All life is a series of sexual encounters. A bit shocking, I know, but true… thinking of sexuality as an act of physical orgasm between two people limits awareness of the possibilities of the emergence of fractal patterns. When orgasm occurs life is created. I am defining life as new energy patterns, manifesting as fractal patterns replicating and varying, as they unfold. Be it with a partner or self each orgasm brings new life to the universe because creation does not demand male and female to come together, nor does it demand an ergot and sperm to be fertile.

Each life design emerges as whole and complete a totality as a replication of a fractal pattern of the creator source. It holds the entire universal array in its structure. The emergence can be physical, mental, and emotional it isn’t limited by any binary concept of conception and manifestation of life. Once we release the concept it is a part of our existence. We have done more at the moment if creation than create a singular idea, but like dropping a stone into a pond we have created a change throughout the entire universe as we experience it in our consciousness.

Out of the consciousness of our life experience comes the foundation of our creations. We are not limited by physical experiences, for we are mental beings capable of conjuring, bringing into existence the entirety of our imagination, and dream life. It is when we release our thinking from limited binary thought and preconditioning about the nature of reality that we become the great artist, the creator of extraordinary acts of courage, empathy, and love.

Our perception of sexuality influences our every second of existence. From how we cook and serve our food, painting, writing, using a camera, parenting, riding a bicycle, you name it every facet of our life is influences by our perception of sexuality and our relationship to consciousness.

If you were to walk away with one idea from reading this it should be that you are not binary, not gender, but a sexual being that is total, whole expression of all life, consciousness. You are capable of great feats of courage, empathy, nurture, discipline, and love. We are the creators of our world. It is through our very thoughts, actions, and emotions that life emerges. You need only have gained one small stone if an idea to drop in the sea of sexuality to start the process.

© 2019 Suzanne Deakins                                                                                                            Sexual Fluidity, Non-Binary Thoughts

Sexual Fluidity Part 1

Mothers’ day is a symbol of the ability within each of us to nurture, grow, and sustain life. It is only in the last couple of decades that we have acknowledged that mothering is not limited by gender. The energies we call mother and father reside in each individual no matter how they identify their gender. Perhaps, going back to Adam and the naming of life we began to divide our world into an either/or, black/or white, and a binary existence. The trouble with a binary existence is it is an illusion. It leaves most of us in a psychotic state of being. That is, we are living in an illusion that everyone/everything is the same or opposite. The Truth is that our world is a fractal series of infinite patterns that continuously forms new configurations of being. It is an infinite never-ending manifestation of consciousness.

These new configurations often cause us to grapple with our awareness and what we thought was so about the nature of reality. We spend hours trying to force new insights and patterns into old thinking. Biblically we try to put new wine into old bottles (skin bags). Trying to put the evolution of consciousness into old systems, old thought avenues limits our power to integrate into the flow of the evolving fractal patterns, leaving us to live in a delusion of a static language, insights, and systems.

True power of any kind lies in the ability to let go of a binary vision and thinking. It means as we embrace that at the level of consciousness/awareness we are all the same, tritely put ONE, and yet we are infinitely different evolving as a fractal array constantly, infinitely forming new patterns and connections to all life. The power in life comes via connection, inclusion, rather than disconnection and exclusion.

When we don’t see the connections in all life as well as the infinite fractal patterns as being connected in our consciousness we loose empathy, conscience, and our ability to see the consequences of our actions and habits. We in fact become psychopathic. Our actions become serial in nature, repeating the same thoughts and actions without different outcomes.

To be healthy, emotionally, physically, and mentally we need to be nurtured. A nurturing person (sans gender) recognizes differences, patterns, and connectedness in all that come to them. This to me is the nature of a true healer, teacher, and parent. This is the omnipotence of the feminine within each being.

Gender and sexuality are not the same. Through the millennium we have been taught that sex is gender and that there are only two, that our system is binary. We are not a binary race. As far as I can observe every living being, plant animal, life is unique, non-binary in nature. Developing our consciousness we form our own one-off gender and way of connecting with life. From the moment we establish our fractal patterns in utero we are the true meaning of androgynous, non-specific in our gender able to be as a chameleon changing and being infinite in our expression.

Gender is not binary. It has nothing to do with what we call sexual organs; it is a state of relating to our identity as consciousness. When someone asks me to say what pronouns I wish to be called, I find myself confused. For, to me I am infinite genders capable of expressing in unknown ways and feelings yet to be defined.

Sexuality is like having a taste for certain foods. Our tastes for sexual encounters and acts have nothing to do with gender identification, genital, or any other physical identification we may have. Our tastes are formed out of our evolving fractal patterns of existence.

© 2019 Suzanne Deakins                                                                                                            Sexual Fluidity, Non-Binary Thoughts

June 22, 2019 a short seminar on the Power of the Feminine will be presented. There is no charge, and is by contribution. If you wish more information write me at onespiritpress@gmail.com

 

 

 

Political Morality Part 4

Refuse the Bitter Pills

We are in the biggest crisis of our existence. The crisis has nothing to do with energy, inequality, human rights, or a war on terrorism. It has to do with our countries moral and ethical compass. Morals and ethics are not learned they come from our inner understanding of our presence as a global traveler, as a member of the great collective called humanity.

Our society is conflicted with contractions that put our future in peril.  When one group loses freedoms the whole world loses.

Living with contradictions has become a way of life for intelligent people. With Ketman like qualifications leaders assert they have the right to be wrong. Being wrong is more than just aligning oneself with a mistake it deals with joining the delusion of a democracy and the right to expression. Our human past is replete with revolutions born out of Ketman like silence. The Ketman effect is when those in a position to change the course of history, by positive assertion of Truth and premises based on Truth and reality, and yet they deny what is right out of fear and lack of courage. Simply put, the act of covering one’s behind… rather than take a stand for what is right for all people.

Refusing to be responsible is opium to the ego mind. Intelligent leaders are swept up in the euphoria by being mediocre and their unwillingness to shout out for what is right. Why are we willing to sacrifice our sense of justice and equality for all, for this illusion and euphoria of being mediocre? What kind of pill have we been swallowing to allow our country, our world get to this place in consciousness. While we criticize another country for their incarceration of individuals for their need to express themselves we vote in politicians that would limit our freedoms. We vote in those who tell us that our freedoms are limited to their narrow view of life.

We hear politicians tell us that those who are homosexual aren’t of God… what is next? Will we vote these idiots into office and watch while they tell us those who practice learning another language or reading a book or producing a painting are not of God? Not as far fetched as you might think. Historically the lack of support of arts and languages is the path that dictators take.

The question remains why are intelligent people willing to stand behind a premise that is foul and destructive? How does one live with a contradiction knowing the Truth and yet willing to live the lie. Searching through all that I can I am stupefied by this willingness to accept erroneous beliefs except for one small idea. We have lost our courage and pioneering spirit. Becoming complacent in our convictions and willing to side with erroneous beliefs…

Forget about the red and yellow peril of the past generations and look at what we are constructing. As the leader of democracy we are a peril to the very health of what democracy stands for. We have decided that equal is treating everyone the same rather than celebrating the individuality of being. We have decided that we know what is of Truth. Our policy is no longer one of embracing the huddle masses… but of exclusion.

The courage to be takes us out of the illusion of ordinary into an extraordinary state of existence. Our lives become one of embracing individuality and yet understanding the core of all life is of one idea no matter what it is called. Those with courage of being don’t have to spout their passion they live it. They are willing to stand up in the face of adversity for what is Truth and right for all. Those with the courage to be protect children from the rhetoric of fear and the opium of delusion. Individuality becomes a source of pride and celebration. Freedom for all is the major premise of governing law.

The courage to be is more than accepting Truth. It is about freeing our minds from the captivity of the delusion of freedom and ego. As long as our intellects remain captive we will cover our behinds and invoke the Ketman aspect of consciousness.

To become courageous refuse to swallow the bitter pills we are handed stand up to those who would pervert our freedom and feed us false premises.

Call out: Those with the courage to be protect children from the rhetoric of fear and the opium of delusion. Individuality becomes a source of pride and celebration. Freedom for all is the major premise of governing law.

© 2017-2019 by Suzanne Deakins                                                                                           From NON Binary Thoughts

 

 

Political Morality Part 3

Decoding Our Moral System as a Country

Nothing in this series is meant to give validity to one or other way of thinking. It is simply meant to awaken us to how this system is working.

Morality is nonphysical, abstract, and based on what we have been taught. The strict father sense of morality is based on the idea that the world is fundamentally a dangerous place and life is difficult. You must be disciplined to succeed and be a good upright person.

Those who fall in this strict father belief system apply the belief to the running of government. For instance when a city or group of people disobey the father’s (President, governor’s, or mayor’s rules) there is a punishment such as the withholding of funds to sanctuary cities. Rules are made by leaders to protect the people, to help citizens to become self-disciplined such as the campaign by President Reagan to just say no to sex and drugs. Saying no would imply that the individuals had self-discipline etc.

The Strict Father Goals are to 1) maintain order 2) supporting and preserving the system of authority 3) using authority to protect those under their authority 4) using authority to help people become better through discipline. Evil is anything external or internal that is contrary to the rules set by the authority. Good is that which defends the rules and is disciplined.

Moral Strength, being good is being upright, evil is falling. Morality is strength. Moral strength is seen in two lights. You must have moral strength in order to stand up to evil and the moral strength creates (defines) the evil. This concept of morality dismisses social energies, social classes etc. If you can say no to sex, drugs, and rock and roll, you are morally a good person with self-discipline all else is a failing. Rules and laws are put in place to reward and protect those good people who have self- discipline and are good upright people. Hence the idea that those in higher income bracket deserve tax breaks (rewards for being good people). Rewards are based on competition and playing by the rules. Hence, gathering large quantities of money is seen as winning a competition and thus being a good upright person.

The moral order is: God is more powerful than people; People are more powerful than plants, animals, and natural objects (this has broad indication on environmental laws and enforcement); Adults are more powerful than children, and Men are inherently more powerful than women (implications about women’s health concerns are indicated here.)

The Nurturant Mother model has similar goals to the Strict Father model, such as protection and helping others to become self-reliant. However, how this modality works is based on a very different perception of morality. Protection is seen as caring for the individuals or social class to protect them from external danger. Competition is not a concern of the nurturant parent. A successful life for the nurturant is one where the child learns to care for others (empathy). The protections from evils are seen differently. Crime and drugs are still seen as dangers, but dangers also include less obvious dangers such as cigarettes, cars without seat belts, dangerous toys, pollution, asbestos…etc. Included in this long list are unscrupulous businesses and persons. To protect the child the nurturant parent needs courage and strength. Children respond to the nurturant parent out of love and respect rather than fear of punishment.

It is important to note that the nurturant parent does not see happiness connected with the accumulation of worldly goods, but rather the ability of the child to establish empathy and compassion with family and social ties. Social ties must be maintained to remain moral. Morality is empathy. But empathy is more than the Golden Rule. The Golden Rule requires you accept others value system in order to have empathy. This in turn can create a paradox because the value system of empathy is needed to treat the situation. Yet if a nurturant is to have empathy for a strict father person whose values are quite different from the nurturant mother’s values a paradox is created. This situation of course is not reversible, as the Strict Father model does not need to consider the values of the Nurturant Mother’s values. For the strict father’s values are seen as absolute and irrefutable.

In government we can see how laws and rules play out through Nurturant governance. Programs and laws are initiated in areas such education, care (health coverage for all) , social security, financial aid, fair immigration policies that allow dream children to become naturalized without the fear of deportation. In the nurturant parent model of government All people are seen as equal and good, and capable of empathic acts. Punishment becomes different forms of education helping the person become an empathic capable person for their community.

Immigration: The nurturant parent will say see how much they give to the community (family) they are good upright individuals.” The strict parent says “they have broken the law and must be disciplined (deported).”

For the nurturant parent: Morality is empathy; morality is taking care of oneself; self-development of human potential; Morality is happiness (one must be happy to help others achieve happiness); Morality is fair distribution.

Moral failings for the nurturant person are: Lack of social responsibility, lack of empathy, self-righteousness, narrow-mindedness, inconsideration, aesthetic insensitivity, meanness, uncommunicative (lack of response avoiding honest conversation), and self-centeredness to name a few.

Our goal is to understand our self and others so the lines of communication can be opened.

© 2017-2019 by Suzanne Deakins                                                                                           from NON Binary Thoughts